thesaddestchorusgirlintheworld:

Having sex with someone actually is a big deal and involves a ton of vulnerability and I think it’s extremely troubling and gross and unhealthy and actually exceptionally dangerous that we pretend otherwise and encourage people to “be mature” by compartmentalizing/completely eliminating their deeper human emotions from their sexuality and that any other view is dismissed as prudish and invalid and unenlightened and childish and restrictive. I can’t think about this too much because it makes me rage but I hate how much porn and capitalism have destroyed how we understand and experience sexuality and intimate connections with one another so much.

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thehairiestfeminist:

When women are not taught anything about sex–that it should be pleasurable for them, that their partners should listen to them and care about their needs, that they are allowed to say no, that they should never be coerced, guilted, or forced into having sex–women go into the sexual phase of their lives completely unprepared. It leaves them very vulnerable to being used, manipulated, and abused.

- Mandy Nicole, ‘The Purity Problem’

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the-transdiscourse:

dramagoblin:

wagnerock:

dramagoblin:

If your apology involves degrading yourself, calling yourself shit or insulting yourself, its not an apology, try again.

Can someone translate this?

Don’t try to guilt people by saying “I’m sorry I fucking suck.” “I’m sorry I’m just the worst and I should die” Because thats not an apology, thats trying to guilt the other person into dropping the subject.

Even if it isn’t an intentional guilt trip, it’s unhealthy and still makes the other person feel guilty, while also hurting your self image even more.

(Source: awfulpigeon, via borderlinebadger)

omgerd:

You ever hear a song so good you gotta restart it before it even finish

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coochieneck:

BE PREPARED FOR REJECTION WHEN YOU REFUSE TO BE MANIPULATED

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thefemaleofspecies:

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